financial commitment after marriage
First, commitment. When you settle down, it means you’re ready to share the income for your household. If you are still using the ideology of the individual in your household, it’s no different than life itself. Will ultimately lead to financial problems. Therefore, a commitment to share a foundation in managing family finances. If during this husband and wife was already using the paradigm, income is the right of each, then change the paradigm. Not too late.
Second, determine the financial goals together. How many assets who want to have? How to prepare the child’s school fees? And so forth. Every family has the right to determine their financial goals. However, that being said the key is how to make a priority of these financial goals. Who should relent and what should take precedence.
A simple example is the need for a family vehicle. Could be, because the inequality view of the family of funds eventually run out to buy things that are not productive. The most common is about the car. It could be that the husband wanted the sedan type car. The goal, so if the office could be more stylish. However, the wife wants the type of vehicle that can carry a lot of people because each wanted to travel together his extended family. If there is no meeting point, the family then bought two cars which in fact is not productive.
This sort of thing could lead to swell the funds for the purchase of cars, and can interfere with family financial goals. Therefore, in the context of these financial goals, both parties must be willing to yield real and prioritize the assets that are productive. As for consumer assets should be based on the functions and basic needs, rather than mere desire.